hiding something

i can't remember if i had something that i wanted to keep a secret from everybody because they always find out anyway so what is the point of me trying to keep a secret. i think that when people try to keep stuff from other people and they fight because of it it is stupid because why would that person care if they new or not if the other person does not want them to know then they don't get to know. so next time somebody gets in a fight because somebody won't tell them something i will tell them that they are stupid and to get a life